Jan. 3, 1981. 34 years past...Lamar & Margie got married! Lamar had already been scheduled for a DOT job, 1 wk. in Statesboro. We were able to get married on Sat., he left on Sun. for Statesboro. NO honeymoon, no husband for a wk. I was left w/explicit instructions -- be completely packed & ready to move to Cartersville, by the time he returned. Ok....and I was. It was a very intimate ceremony, just friends and Lamar's family. His brother "stood up" for him, and David's girlfriend @ the time, was my stand-in. Lamar's sweet Mama cried....I think later, she did it out of joy! The date chosen was to HONOR my sweet Mama. Jan.3rd is also her birthday. This year, Mama would mark #85! However, she passed into her heavenly home in 2003. My life has never been quite the same. I MISS her so very much. It's a loss that can't be explained, except, sadly through your own experience. So. EVERY day I am THANKFUL for this loving man, my husband of 34 ye...